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Berliner Schnauze: The 'rude' German attitude foreigners could learn from

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Miriam Partington - [email protected]
Berliner Schnauze: The 'rude' German attitude foreigners could learn from
Queues before getting on public transport don't exist in Berlin. Photo: DPA

The Berliner Schnauze, while seemingly rude and antisocial, can reveal itself to be quite endearing over time. If anything, it can teach a Brit a thing or two about getting to the point, one writer found.


Brits have a number of undesirable stereotypes. The UK is full of heavy drinkers with bad personal hygiene and a propensity for hooliganism at football matches. It’s just as well that we’re considered unrelentingly polite. 

These were, at least, the first comments I received from German people about the perceived behavior of Britons when I moved to Berlin.

Germans find Brits puzzling with their excessive manners and never-ending chitchat. Brits, in turn, find the characteristic German directness somewhat hard to stomach.

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An unique brand of brusqueness

Berliners have their own unique brand of German brusqueness – something they have affectionately termed the ‘Berliner Schnauze.’ The metaphor for their gruff and standoffish way of speaking, their coarse sense of humour and, to be honest, their downright rudeness is the Schnauze or “snout” of a dog (slang for mouth) and is seen as a fundamental part of the Berliner parlance. 

This poster in Berlin reads: 'Be heart, be Schnauze, be Berlin'. Photo: DPA

In the German capital, you might just get angrily ushered onto a bus by a driver that doesn’t care whether you’ve paid or not. A cyclist might wave an angry fist at you for stepping into the bike lane or, quite simply, charge full speed ahead despite your attempt to get out of the way.

When asking for a Berliner pilsner at a bar, you’ll likely get the beer plonked down in front of you with a hand held out for a tip simultaneously.

Let’s just say it’s rare to receive service with a smile. 

Public transport mishaps

When on a Saturday afternoon I took the S-Bahn for the first time since landing in Berlin, I was dismayed at the distinct lack of etiquette on public transport. 

No one made an orderly queue in front of the train doors to let those who had waited for the longest board the train first. No expression of gratitude was uttered when I shuffled into the corner of the carriage to make room for a fellow passenger.

Even worse, not one person apologised for invading my already limited personal space and crushing various parts of my body in an attempt to squeeze themselves onto the packed train. 


Unlike the British, Berliners are far from overzealous with their pleases and thank yous and the act of saying sorry is a formality which is often deemed unnecessary, or simply annoying.

A dear old lady turned particularly menacing when I brushed passed her in a busy street later that day, sending her shopping bags swinging to and fro on her zimmer-frame, and was far from pleased with my endless clucks of apology. 

Orderly queues in front of train doors are a subject of fantasy in Berlin. Photo: DPA

Senseless small talk

The following morning, I experienced my next halting realisation in the supermarket. Germans, particularly Berliners, don’t do small talk. 

The English tend to chat about the mundane as an indirect attempt to make conversation interesting and less awkward. Berliners, on the other hand, see this aspect of discourse as no less than empty verbiage. The lady at the checkout simply rolled her eyes and grunted at my attempt to talk about the weather and hurriedly passed me my items as if to encourage my swift exit from the building. 

You could say that Germans, in general, are economical with words. They mean what they say and they say what they mean. For Brits, it’s quite the contrary. In fact, English people will say a lot of things for the sake of politeness, including feigning interest in a person they’ve just met. 

In English conversation, it’s common to say that you would like to meet someone again when the chances are, you really don’t. For a German, saying "Nice to meet you" when you don’t necessarily mean it, is uncomfortably close to deceit.

Simply trying to be nice

The British avoidance of saying what we really mean is disorientating for people from other nationalities too. My French-Canadian friend says the English tendency to pad conversation out with excessive niceties makes them come across as insincere. We, of course, don’t see it like that. We’re simply trying to be nice. 

Or we’re just trying to be funny. Britons communicate in euphemisms and sarcastic phrases that Germans often take at face value. This leads to terrible instances of miscommunication, most of which are too teeth-grindingly awful to be stated here.

We also tend to understate serious things for comic effect. A good example of this is in Monty Python and The Meaning of Life, a staple British comedy film from the 80s, where the Grim Reaper’s arrival at a dinner party "casts rather a gloom" over the evening. Or when in The Life of Brian (again Monty Python), the act of being crucified is described simply as a way to “get out in the open air.”

Humour is often a good method to get around cultural boundaries. Underneath the prickly exterior of many Berlin veterans is a dry, cynical wit and an outspokenness that cuts through any kind of awkwardness. It just takes some getting used to.

Hidden decency?

An older German gentleman and I were once having a war over whose cucumber and tomatoes were whose at a market stall until the seller stepped in to confirm that they were, in fact, mine.

The man’s demeanor instantly changed at realising his mistake. He let out a rather chesty laugh and told me affectionately, with a heavy Berliner accent, that you start to lose your marbles the older you get.

Each culture has its nuances that internationals have to grow to accept. The Berliner Schnauze, while seemingly rude and antisocial, can reveal itself to be quite endearing over time. If anything, it can teach a Brit a thing or two about getting to the point.


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Anonymous 2021/10/20 10:06
I find this article more or less true of Germans who are native to Berlin, and perhaps certain parts of the Old East, but otherwise not really. In general smalltalk is less of a thing here, i agree, but again not everywhere and not with every German. The other thing about Berlin is that so many residents come from so many other places that one often doesn't encounter too many native Berliners, especially in the trendier districts, so i'm not sure how relevant this will be to the experiences of many visitors.
Anonymous 2021/10/19 18:03
I agree and my husband who is a Berliner told me that in the past few years, he has personally encountered more and more incidents in which the persons involved are just plain rude.
Anonymous 2019/07/10 18:24
I agree with the author on everything.
Anonymous 2019/06/30 04:37
My wife and I just returned from vacation in Europe. We visited Germany, Austria, and Switzerland. Most of the locals we met in Germany were kind, helpful, and courteous, especially when listening to my dreadful beginner German when asking for directions. Perhaps they just wanted me to stop mangling their native language. Since I am an American trying to speak German that is pretty plausible. Or maybe we just met the wrong Germans. Our experience in Germany, as well as Austria and Switzerland, was quite positive. What delightful countries. Wir mogen Deutschland. Sorry, American keyboard, no umlauts. We hope to return.
Anonymous 2019/06/27 20:20
Another article filled with Stereotypes. Maybe the writer has had some bad experiences. I understand cultural differences, but I wouldn't classify it as being "rude"... People of Berlin have always seemed to be Friendly, helpful, sondern ernst.
Anonymous 2019/06/27 09:04
So much stereotypes in this article. I live in Berlin for many years and I have seldom experienced rudeness like this on the S-bahn, for example. It's like the author is describing some other Berlin.
Anonymous 2019/06/26 09:13
I DO wish Germans would learn to be kinder. In reading this article - I would say that Americans are very similar to Brits in that we love to chit-chat; smile; say, "sorry" and be aware of boarding the train in a polite way, etc. When I moved to Berlin 10 years ago, I assumed the attitudes were "European" but when I traveled around Europe, I was pleased to see that the kindness, smiles and "sorry" were evident all over! Just not in Germany. I blame it on communism. I've been to southern Germany and the rudeness is not so pronounced there. I think the topic should be addressed more because the poor Germans have been through so much! They are mistrustful; have not experienced "love" (many of them). It is kind of a sad situation.

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