A famous East German book on healthy sex. Photo: DPA

East Germans nostalgic for sex as it was before the Wall fell

Published: 19 Oct 09 08:08 CET
Online: http://www.thelocal.de/society/20091019-22657.html

Curiosity for the West German sex trade boomed among East Germans after the Berlin Wall fell in 1989, but now there is a growing nostalgia among these same people for sex the way it was behind the Iron Curtain.

"Sex at last" or "Pleasure without borders," claimed West German headlines aimed at East Germans who thronged to Western sex shops after the Berlin Wall fell 20 years ago this November.

"It was curiosity born of great innocence," recalled Kurt Starke, 70, a sociologist and sex expert in Leipzig, eastern Germany. "Couples went to sex shops, sometimes with grandmothers holding a child by the hand. We wanted to discover everything the West had to offer."

Under the totalitarian state in the German Democratic Republic (GDR), as communist East Germany was known, pornography and prostitution were serious taboos.

"The sex trade in West Germany was considered by the regime as bourgeois decadence," Starke remembers.

But "people were drawn by pornography, we could have sold it non-stop," said Wolfgang Foerster, 55, who sold X-rated videos under the counter and then started one of the first striptease clubs in Dresden, eastern Germany.

Seeing a gap in the market, Western entrepreneurs jumped in as early as 1990 when the country unified.

Caravans of prostitutes parked outside dilapidated eastern cities and downmarket sex shops opened their doors, although their legal status was still uncertain.

"The girls liked East German guys because they were gentle and timid, but complained about Westerners who thought their money could buy anything," said Foerster, whose club was located near one of the mobile brothels.

"When regulations were established, many of the operations shut down and the pioneers disappeared. Many were amateurs who had not managed to make it in the West," he said.

Sex businesses took over, the West German giant Beate Uhse in the lead. But once the curiosity for vibrators, dildos and other sex toys waned, eastern demand dropped off.

The lack of money had something to do with it. Reunification was harder than many expected and unemployment in eastern German states is still much higher than in the west.

Beate Uhse still makes most of its money in more prosperous western German states.

But in the intervening years, a nostalgia for "love as it was before" has risen in the east.

Back then, "men and women depended on their own imagination. That made sex less stressful," said Berlin writer Jutta Resch-Treuwerth, 67, who wrote for a lonely-hearts column for young Easterners for some 20 years.

"In a rigid state that wanted to control everything, citizens were more emancipated with respect to their sex life, women in particular," Professor Starke added.

Better access to higher education and jobs along with free abortion and contraception and generous family policies favoured a less traditional role for women in the East than in the West at the time.

And in bed, women took the initiative more often and reached orgasm more often than their Western counterparts, at least according to polls taken then.

"Eastern women did not talk about their orgasm for hours, they just let themselves go," Starke said.

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10:56 October 19, 2009 by Heinrich der Zweite
And in bed, women took the initiative more often and reached orgasm more often than their Western counterparts, at least according to polls taken then.

Rubbish! Western women are better, many take the initiative when not in bed.

"Eastern women did not talk about their orgasm for hours, they just let themselves go," Starke said.

Because after having one, they slept longer.
18:48 October 19, 2009 by D R Jones
12:43pm Virginia, USA Dear Heinrich, as an American I had the great privilage of making love to women from both West and East Germany before the Berlin Wall fell. I can tell you from my own experience that the women from both sides of the border were equally pleasure driven and never a disappointment. I never had a woman that wanted to sleep after just one orgasm. Well, actually I've never had a woman from any country want to sleep after just one orgasm. Heinrich perhaps you should examine your techinque in the bedroom. Perhaps you're boring them until they fall asleep. "GRIN"
19:16 October 19, 2009 by Heinrich der Zweite
Perhaps you're boring them until they fall asleep. "GRIN"

Not boring, bohren!
18:31 October 20, 2009 by berlinski
Heinrich, are you sure they are awake in the first place?
12:24 October 21, 2009 by martell
In a country where drugs and Rock 'n Roll were outlawed, only sex was leftover for the masses. And it was for free, too.
15:07 October 22, 2009 by Neutral
Availability of commercial sex helps in curbing many sex-related crimes, for sure. But too much and too overt commercial sex de-mystifies sex and, therefore, reduces the excitement and pleasure of sex. After all, it is basically in the mind. In that respect, Easterners were perhaps better off.
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