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A German court ruled that circumcision for non-medical reasons is bodily harm - a criminal assault - a decision that is bound to create uproar among Jewish and Muslim communities. Is it a reasonable ruling? Have your say.
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reminds me of what I've heard about sexual child-abuse, the worst crime imaginable.
Someone's obsessed with private parts for sure. Some religions are.
Someone has to take off their clothes to feel special, and it's not the Germans.
Yeah, but I don't have to pull anything back when I clean nor is there any cheese :O)
I start to get very concerned that the state is taking on this - especially considering potential medical benefits. I have yet to see many circumcised men talking about how this traumatic event has caused them to lead an unfulfilled life requiring couselling before they could be a functioning member of society. Abuse? Comparable to locking a child up, or beatings, or starving a child, or emotional control?
I hope this gets recinded.
My question is this -- the procedure is mostly done during infancy or at a young age, going by the above picture. And apparently often without anaesthetics, no less. Why not let the person decide for themselves once they are old enough? I mean, Western societies increasingly tend to wrap their young in cotton wool and emphasize the - received - wisdom of putting off any elective medical procedure until a child is old enough. But it is somehow A-OK to cut off a young boy's foreskin, a somewhat painful and potentially traumatic experience?
I should probably add that as an atheist, any religious argument in favor of ritual circumcision to me is invalid. But that's beside the point here. To me this is a matter of common sense, and questioning the wisdom of things that have simply "always been this way".
If parents have right to allow plastic surgery of any type, like sticky ears, boobs etc to their children... which could just as well have similar complications as the case above, than forbidding the Circumcision is clear anti-semitism, hypcricy at least.
What this article and The Local are misinterpreting, is that the Cuo
Why don't boys get the same protection? Everyone should be able to decide for themselves whether or not they want parts of their genitals cut off. It's *their* body.
Parents have no more right to do this to their children than they do beating their children. I agree this is a crime and the courts decision is a good one.
Circumcised men get UTI's too, and women get about four times as many UTI's as men. It's far easier for an intact man to clean his genitals than for a woman to clean hers, but we don't cut parts off baby girls.
You're reaching, dude. You're saying its ok for uncircumcised men to get UTIs because women get them , too? not your strongest argument.
Other countries should follow this lead. Baby boy penis parts removal should be considered illegal NOW in the United States under the 1996 federal law banning genital cutting -- 14th Amendment equal protection clause.
Those saying that preventing the cutting off of penis parts of a baby boy violates the cutter's freedom of religion, are way out there in irrational land. One's religion ends where their knife touches another human's body. The idea that another human's ritual (rite) trumps ones right to body parts is insane and creepy. Baby boy penis parts removal cuts off thousands of fine touch and stretch nerves. This is like disconnecting the fingertips, nipples or lips from the brain. No human should be subjected to sensory system harm as well as a forced decrease of sexual function and PLEASURE for life!
Two men talking in the shower room. 'Hey Frank, I'm thinking of cutting off my foreskin. How about you?' I can't quite picture this conversation.
'I can't quite picture this conversation. '
You also can't picture being infested with infection at a time when antibiotics did not exist.
It would sound more like this ' Hey, Frank. I just had to cut off another poor sods gnarly infected foreskin this morning. I think maybe we should start cutting them off before they get infected. I heard Bob hasn't had any problems since we cut his off. How about you? Pass the soap.'
1)When I can pee outside, in the freezing cold,with both hands in my pockets, I am grateful for being circumcised.
2) When I must go a long time without a proper bath, and do not have smegma all over the place, I am grateful for being circumcised.
3) Women prefer it.
And that is that...
@SchwabHallRocks, I can assure you that this woman prefers an uncut to a cut penis, yet will not be as shallow as to discriminate my choice of partner based on the state of his, ahem... "Member" and would be more picking about his hygiene in general (but if you have to go without a proper bath for a long time: it's pretty easy to stick it out over the sink and give it a quick rinse) and I would be more likely not to want to go with you for peeing outside regularly with your hands in your pockets than whether you were cut or not... Be a Mensch. Leave babies penises alone.
I have grown up in culture where nearly no one gets circumcised, and in fact I didn't know about this procedure until I moved to Europe. But I have very quickly realized, that I have a baby-boy some day, I'll do it without a doubt - so much trouble it will save him in life. And I am not a religious person at all.
If they forbid this, they should also forbid piercing ears until the age of 18 (it can also cause complications).
I have seen how circumcision can improve the quality of sexual life of a man, and this is something I would wish for my child.
For those who say it has to be done after the child is 18, think about the fact that many of those problems related to the presence of foreskin happen way before 18. Not to mention that kids in nowadays start having sex very early.
Restricting? Maybe (for example, to do it at a VERY early age, when it can do no physiological harm). Forbidding? - Its just ridiculous!!!
Finding a scarred, dried out, keritanized penis that literally scoops lubrication out of a woman's vagina due to the now-exposed coronal hook to be more attractive makes no sense either.
Comparing the removal of what is 15 square inches of the most erogenous tissue on a male's body with ear piercing is a laughable comparison.
For the sake of your future children, I hope you will read some actual scientific evidence rather than forcing cosmetic surgery on an unconsenting baby. Start with the British Medical Journal's recommended library: CIRP [dot] ORG [slash] LIBRARY
Besides its not a Religious issue, its a Parents Rights issue. Who cares what religion the parents are? Just make sure that the people performing circumcisions are qualified to do so. Whats next? Piercing babies ears?
IchBinKönig...if that were the case (and you have zero proof) natural selection would have removed the foreskin. 70% of the male population are not circumcised.
'Hey, Bob, since I pulled all my teeth out, no more toothaches. Let me get my pliers.'
danhab...sheltered life? Sports, armed services, school gym, saunas.
And, OMG, Dear Victoria, is it what you really think when you look at a man's penis? I don't know about those "scarred, dried out, keritanized" words that you are saying. I am just saying, that I prefer to touch and kiss something that I can actually see is clean, then try to guess how long the guy didn't shower by finding some whatever behind his foreskin. And it definitely doesn't "scoop out" the lubrication - it uses it for very appropriate function. Maybe some prefer "Shar-Pej" like, but I think most of the women, who tried both would agree, that circumcised looks better.
I make my conclusions based on my own experience, experiences of non-circumcised and circumcised man. And sex life of circumcised simply seems to me better (from what they say). You say the science says it? Well, taking into account how conservative British science is, I would think they do a lot of "data torture", when they twist and turn their research to fit their beliefs.
After all, you provide scientific point of view (which for some reason says nothing about the effect on ACTUAL health and well being), I provide "end-user" point of view. But, hey, what are we talking about? Why don't we ask men themselves.
Further, you have a baby girl and your man says, 'I like the clean look.' You going to do your daughter too?
About people saying "scars left from the cut", there is no scar at least if it's done at young age.
sensitivity? there is no medical evidence. Even if there is, it results in PE.
I think if it is done in a clinic, the circumcision is a good practice.
But if 30% of women in the world have been cut, and they said they are happy about it, I would consider this procedure. If I would find one woman, who said that it didn't make any difference in her life, and at least one doctor told me that it will decrease my chances of having a bladder problem, I would do it.
There are so many things that are left out of consideration just because they make profit: smoking, sun exposure (especially those solarium), drinking. Parents should be punished for not protecting their children from those (for example those parents who smoke inside the house, or give their 16 year old daughter a monthly ticket to solarium).
Everything has to be done in reasonable way - at the correct age by specialized people. If its so harmful and bad - educate people, just as you educate people about drugs.
Thanks to @ VictoriaCircumcisionResources of course I will check what she is saying just because she might happen to have a point. But if I find no evidence against this procedure (and I mean, evidence that it HARMS), I would still go for it.
And also, of course my bf would have a final word in this whole thing: because he is a guy and he at least know how it is: to be (or not to be) circumcised. And if he says, its better to do it (and he is not a religious man at all), then we will do it.
Having been circumcised as a baby, I don't know what it would be like to be uncircumcised. Having been in the military and having only 5 gallons of water for 11 soldiers for showers in 30 days, I understand the potential hygiene issues. Already having been circumcised, I imagine in some ways it may be better having it done as a baby since you don't have to worry about it later and make a decision when you will remember the pain.....but in that case I didn't get to make the decision.
If one has access to soap and water, then hygiene shouldn't be an issue one way or another. However, the procedure itself should be treated as a surgery since you are putting another person at risk of potential complications.
As for looks and functionality.....that is individual preference. I am sure there are men that prefer to be uncircumcised and those that prefer being circumcised.....and women with the same preferences (for their men).
In my personal opinion about female circumcision, I am against it since as it is practiced in parts of the world, it tends to cause diminished sexual pleasure for the women that have undergone the process. It is said to be extremely painful and often times is performed so that the woman does not derive sexual pleasure from sex. This may not be the case in all instances, but probably the majority.
It is ironic to read commentary from the non-circumcised in a German blog about a topic related to sex / reproduction. Germany, Russia, all the Mediterranean countries have negative birth rates. Native Germans are slowly and certainly becoming extinct.
In the meantime, the circumcised Americans and Moslems are going to inherit the world since they are the only ones having positive birth rates (in the context of this article).
@Nina - thank you for a sensible contribution. Given your husband is, if you have a son, so should he. Ask a rational doctor not swayed by the hyperbole of the day. Also, thank you for trying to explain to the others there is a difference between male and female circumcision.
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/10/111006133022.htm
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2012/03/120312102148.htm
How do you know what religion --if any-- your child will want to adopt?
Permanently marking the child as belonging to YOUR religion is little different from branding cattle. For a human child, such marking is barbaric, primitive, and superstitious.
We do not own our children; they are given to us in trust, to protect and nourish. International law demands that children be protected from ¦#39;traditional practices harmful to children.¦#39;
Genital cutting is ethically indistinguishable from other ¦#39;traditional¦#39; practices inflicted on children: foot-binding, scarification, tattooing, earlobe stretching, child labor, and sexual slavery.
It is time such indices of child ownership are abandoned.
John Geisheker, J.D., LL.M.
Executive Director,
General Counsel,
DoctorsOpposingCircumcision.org
Seattle, Washington USA
Those who are saying it should be ban, just think abt it that you are snatching their right of practicing religion. I believe whatever you religion is, even if you dnt practice any religion , it is your right and one should have Independence.
Child are suppose to b custody of their parents and their parents have a right to choice whatever they think might be right for them. Its is natural right , even in animal, one cant give away it...
I am a woman and I, most certainly, do not prefer circumcision. I have been with men who are cut and men who are not and in the end, I prefer men in their natural state. Please don't speak for "what women prefer".
Probably some liberal freak woman who thinks she knows best. One day people will just have enough and reset all this crap through world war. Til then keep rocking!
My boyfriend is not circumcised, but wishes he was. He is more hygiene-obsessed than me - and finds circumcised penises more attractive.
As we both wash our penises, being uncircumcised causes us no problems.
My nephew had a circumcision when he was 9 or 10, for medical reasons.
Saying "everyone likes it this way" is wrong. Saying "it is my religion" is wrong - it's not necessarily that of the baby. And in my opinion, making a cosmetic decision for your child is wrong. Even if you think it is more hygienic - better just teach your child how to wash themselves properly.
I found the discussion very interesting though, thanks all.
Why don't they just go to Isreal or Saudi Arabia for the procedure? I'm sure it is still legal in those countries.
"Zimbabwe parliamentarians are being circumcised in a bid to promote awareness about Anti- AID compain"
Nothing else is required to mention further...
Those who think so seem to crave authority or some kind of power, they want the choice to be their own instead of the owner of the body part, either for their ego, or for their religion. It's the same with piercings and tattoos, I wouldn't force them on my child, it's their choice, because it's their body, not the body of the parent. It's also the child's choice to be a part of whichever religion they want, NOT the parents' choice. Indoctrinating your child means they didn't come to your religion by their own free will, they were brainwashed. You don't get to determine what another person does with their own body.
If you want to make it, I should be able to demand that the use of psychedelic drugs is legalised for religious reasons.
Should any believe that they have the right to inflict this agony on another:
In England and Wales, section 29(1)(a) of the Crime and Disorder Act 1998 (c.37) creates the distinct offence of racially or religiously aggravated wounding or infliction of bodily harm. This is an aggravated version of the offence under section 20.
Now I hear that uncircumcised penis is more sensitive during intercourse. Do I know it? No. I don't know how it would feel if I was intact. You don't know what it is to have a bodypart when you have grown without it. I feel mutilated, amputated, deprived and violated for no reason.
Whoever says this is statism is pretty much ignorant. I'm an anarchist myself and support government intervention in this issue. Because power relations have various manifestations and the authority/oppression of families over children is not more justifiable than that of the state. We're talking about cutting off a child's bodypart here. There is no turning back.
Now people talking about democracy, how do you explain that, in any Islamic regime, my circumcision could be used as evidence that I was once a muslim, proving that now I'm an infidel, and infidels are put to death according to Sharia law? Let's be honest, we're not so much into freedom, we have never been. If that was the case, we wouldn't even contemplate to do this to our children.
'Nuff said.
To decide on the value of the foreskin one must read the foundational anatomy performed in Winnipeg, Canada by Dr. John Rippon Taylor published in the British Journal of Urology, Feb '96 and Jan '99 and the physiology by Dr. Morris Sorrells et al performed in California April 2007, BJU also.
As for aesthetic preference, the glans denuded by circumcision looks like battered shoe leather, there is nothing appealing about the circular scar, the absence of the delicate scent deprives the female brain of stimulation, and the prepuce enables gentle, satisfactory sex - Sex as Nature Intended it, O'Hara and O'Hara. The circumcised penis leaves women feeling scraped, jack-hammered, unsatisfied and planning ow to avoid sex with that partner in the future!
The fact that close to 200,000 men are engaged in foreskin restoration and an iPhone app, i4SkinHealth, exists to help track restoration progress should say just how much men enjoy being sexually injured by circumcision.
Anyway, nobody will observe the court's decision. Also kosher butchering is forbidden in Germany - who cares?
In the Europe of today, such personal hygiene is, for the majority of people, a normal part of everyday life. The reason for circumcision has, in most cases, therefore lost any value it had.
The understandable result is, that such inflicted injury on babies has become a crime, because it puts tradition before the individual rights of a person unable to protect himself. Those who still believe they can improve on the work of God by damaging the human body should be allowed to do so, but only on themselves! It is a question of what one places first: Human- or religious rights.
It is something diffcult to fight against religiois believes and practice making by people for tousends of years.
Naturally every people decide at the end what is right or wrong in his own country as long as the country has a free and democratic elections,such laws will certainly sharp the religiois difference and the distance between the different religious groups and will resolve on a big international scale nothing
Well ,I do understand what you are saying, it will not stop people to practice their believes and religion, then people will go abroad and do it there,can the state controll these people?
don't be so sure all the white men in the states is so fine with this practice. it is becoming less common as people become better educated about the issue, and referendums are even organized in the more progressive cities such as San Francisco and Santa Monica to ban the practice.
if it were your own flesh being slashed you might think twice. many women in Africa are circumsized, but almost none in Europe. do we say "live and let live" in that case? of course not.
Everybody got its own opinion in that matter,but no group will be able to force his opinion on the other group by laws.
I do not think that you can with police, judge and court,"convince" people to give up their traditions and religion rules ,it never worked in the past and it will not work in the future, Yes you can make the laws in your own home land,and the conflicts among the different religious groups will be sharper.
The law is limited to Germany,if you are citizen of another country where the practise is authorizzed and you live in that country nobody can sue you.
now as a phisician I will give you the exact medical defintion of mutilation:"an organ mutilation is a situation in which an organ loss completly its form and function because of operation or traumatic event"
In circumcision just a thin foreskin external to glans is removed without any shaft deformation or functioning insult.
During the last 64 years there was no single case in Israel where a child who grew up sued his parents because of circumcision,so in our land you are in those 2% of the parents who oppose this practise and do not practise it,
by the way if you were born to a Jewish mother you are authomticly Jew even if you converted to Christianity, not circumsized or eat pig,
90 percent of the population in Israel are not religious and 10 percent are religious,
97 percent of the population do keep the tradition of circumcision.
So if a Jew who live in Germany risk a jail because of you decided that circumcision is a criminal act -his place is in Israel,this was specialy true after 1945.
your statement that circumcision causes "no functioning insult". Is hotly contested as so many comments here and all over the web demonstrate.
the male penis has multiple functions, including urinating and providing sexual pleasure.
There are many who are convinced that circumcision does ruin sex for the victim for a lifetime. not all agree, but clearly there is no consensus.
allowing the victim to file civil suits or press criminal charges when he or she reaches adulthood is an interesting idea. not just against the parent but also against Doctors or Mohels who collude in the attack.
Well,
As a Physician I do not know about the linkeage between circumcision and sex function, I admite that as a family doctor here I have not met such problem,and I work more then 20 years, but I promise you I will check if there are articles in the New England Journal of Medicine or by the American Urology Society.
At least I can testify that my wife and I have not met such difficulties and we are married for many years and happy about our life.
As far as I know I can not recall one case in Israel in which a son sued his parents because of the circumcision.
In Israel you can sue who ever you want even your parents or the doctors or the mohel.
In August 1989 an Israeli organisation who oppose the circumcision is appealed to the Suprime Court in Jerusalem in order to stop the circumcision by law, the appeal was rejected, the court replied that the circumcision in Israel is a religious ritual and not a medical operation, exactly as ear piercing or tatuating, just in case of medical operation you need the consent of the Patient or in our case the parents.The court added that Israel was established on the Jewish values and traditions as a Jewish state,the court leave the parents the decision if to practice the cirumcision or not.
Cheeba I must be honest with you ,it was not easy to be present in the room when it was done,I remember that my wife left the room because she could not
stand it and it was very very diffuclt to me ,
I told her afterwards that the next time we are going to hospidal and making a general Anaeshesia.
anyway thank you for your comments .
It is true that nearly all of these men can still achieve erections, experience some pleasure and spawn children.
That said, the removal of thousands of nerves that exist to provide pleasure reduces the experience, In many cases by a tremendous amount.
If you cut off two fingers from your hand, the hand is still useful, you can still write a letter or steer your car, but you would surely be better off with all five digits intact.
As for the argument that this has been part of Jewish culture since biblical times, many other old traditions have been put aside, such as stoning a new bride to death if she is found out not to be a virgin on the wedding night.
I understand your anger,for you that is old dark practice which has to be banned.
for hunders of milions of people it is an old practice which is done because of religious reason with full authorizzation of the states where they live,then you may have problems with the governments who permit it, and then we pass to international question how much one country can interfer with the internal affairs of other one.naturly that in your country you make the laws as you wish.
Cheeba
thanks I do understand what you write and mean,afternoon I did some "homework" and read scientific articles ,the debate is there, in some research the Physicians found erection problem and sexsual unsatisfactory in adults who passesd circumcision, but that research were few and limited to adult circumcision not to infant. but the declaration"the circumsized person can not compare his sexual satisfaction to what could be if he would not pass that procedure" come through the research not true, as most research took 2 groups: circumsized men and non circumsized men and compared their sexsual satisfaction by feeling a questionary which was the same to two groups , in the majority of the cases there wasno difference in the sexual satisfaction or erection. between the 2 groups.
I don't think the right to 'cut' a child should be given to any religion.
If the boy wants to do it at 18, that's his choice and I have no problem with it.
Adults sometimes have to make literally painful choices for themselves, with the emphasis on "themselves". Pre emptive surgery on minors for a set of flimsy excuses, or a religion is vicious.
Ban all elective surgery on minors; that goes for branding and tattoos as well. Parents breaking it should lose all custody and face some lengthy prison time.
"Despite the 1996 ban on Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) in Egypt, the issue continues to be a divisive one, especially amid fears that the ban could be reversed under an Islamist government.
Many Egyptians find it difficult to accept the issue is a pressing one and deny the alarmingly high statistics, like one by the United Nations International Children¦#39;s Emergency Fund (UNIFC) which states that 91 percent of women are circumcised in the country.
Updated in January 2012, the UNIFC global databases are grounded on Demographic Health Surveys, Multiple Indicator Cluster Surveys and other national surveys collected from 2002 and 2008.
With the toppling of the Egyptian regime and the Islamists escaping the grip of Hosni Mubarak¦#39;s iron fist, talk of reversing the 1996 ban based on religious grounds has resurfaced.
Amid the rising speculations that FGM would be legalized in Egypt, the Freedom and Justice Party was accused in May of sending a large medical convoy into the village of Abu Aziz in the Minya governorate, south of Cairo which offered to perform the operation for as little as 30 Egyptian pounds ($4.90)."
There you have it.
No other man or woman has the right to make that irrevocable decision for him. No religious or cultural excuse is reason enough to take that choice away from him.
Now it is up to the Jews there to take a decision,they can not change the country in which they live, they are minority, in any case and the majority is against the circumcision.
for those who wish to live their Jewish life the solution is the Jewish state.
for those who wish to stay in exile they must adapt to the rules of the host country.
Israel
I am thrilled at Germany's decision!! Circumcision is violent, it's dangerous, children actually die every year from the procedure. If someone wants to cut their own penis at 18 or 50 that's their choice. Parents shouldn't have the right to choose for them. Way to go Germany!
Parents which circumsize their childs should be put out of parental control for the rest of their lives.
As for those who support genital mutilation of children - we hope their ways come to an end.
There should definitely be some distinction made between male and female circumcision. Female circumcision was invented as a tool to subjugate women. Male circumcision was invented for the purposes of hygiene. It is like comparing whips and soap.
@Peter Helenius - By your same logic, parents who let their kids eat McDonalds or drink cola should also have their children taken away. Those two things are much worse for a boy than circumcision, which can lower his chances of getting AIDS.
The thing that bothers me about this thread is that everyone says the child can choose when he gets older. But that's not a valid argument. The older the male when the circumcision is done, the greater the chances for complications, both physical and mental.
This ruling is really about the majority telling the minority what they can do with their kids. Worse, the ruling is based on pain from a one time event, with the result being a body enhancement. That's like outlawing vaccinations. Or braces. If I want to get my kid vaccinations or braces and you don't like it, well, get lost! It's my kid we are talking about, not yours. If I want my kid to be healthier and better looking, why not? Or are we literally talking about a case of penis envy?
Circumcision was used by the Egyptians to mark Hebrew slaves, who then took it as as identity badge. Slavery counts as subjugation.
Parents do not have unconditional power to do whatever to their kids. A diet exclusively of junk food is indeed neglect.
The HIV study in Africa was debunked.
You said before you wanted to do this before he's old enough to remember (or protest in any way you should admit). That's called doing it on the sly.
Your son will live his life and in his generation, not yours. You imposing your view of what's "better looking" on him is mindless and arrogant. That's an understatement.
The idea of Egyptians circumcising Jews to mark them as slaves is fantastical and laughable. If you want to mark someone, you do it where you can see the mark. And no, people in Egypt didn't run around without something covering their privates. On the contrary, Egyptians circumcised themselves and invented the practice, at least according to Wikipedia.
Parents decide what happens to their kids and the law protects these children when there is clear neglect. The fact that we can have a debate about circumcision means it is not clear at all.
The HIV study was not debunked! Do a search for HIV and circumcision in Google and you will see pages and pages of links. I see a link on the Lancet from 2007 where they did a study in Rakai, Uganda from 2007. I quote:
"HIV incidence was lower in the intervention group than it was in the control group in all sociodemographic, behavioural, and sexually transmitted disease symptom subgroups. Moderate or severe adverse events occurred in 84 (3·6%) circumcisions; all resolved with treatment. Behaviours were much the same in both groups during follow-up."
Scientific American has an article from 2010. The title is:
Clean-Cut: Study Finds Circumcision Helps Prevent HIV and Other Infections
From the article:
"Families of anaerobic bacteria, which are unable to grow in the presence of oxygen, are abundant before circumcision but nearly disappear after the procedure. The researchers suspect that in uncircumcised men, these bacteria may provoke inflammation in the genitalia, thereby improving the chances that immune cells will be in the vicinity for HIV viruses to infect."
This brings us back to hygiene and what is best for the child. You obviously don't know. However, I would never infringe on your right to not have your child circumcised, as it is your child, not mine. Yet you have no problem doing that to me. What gives you this right?
As regards your "doing it on the sly", it is simply a matter of fact that an operation done early will have fewer complications. Getting a medical procedure done before the pain means anything is the way to do it. I am circumcised and am quite glad it happened and before I can remember. It was the right thing to do. I'm more concerned my kid will be upset that I didn't do it when he was young because the risks and pain are much greater later.
You say a bunch of things without backing it up with facts. THAT is mindless and arrogant. We can't really have a discussion with emotion being used in place of reasoning and facts.
every country has the right to make its own laws.
we have our tradition, you call it barbarity it is your right to think and say what you wish.
you can limit the Jews in practising their religion in your countries,so and so it was allways the same situation in Europe for generations,once less and other times more.
In our country we shell practice our religion without external limitions.
The study was debunked. As was the penile cancer myth and several more.
http://guggiedaly.blogspot.de/2011/02/circumcision-increases-risk-of.html
Your son will have access to more info that you ever had, and is more likely to come down on you for the unnecessary surgery imposed on him.
Yet you complain about infringing on rights. If your neighbors had a daughter and carried out a little snipping at home, hopefully you would interfere. This might come as a shock, but your child isn't your property.
Here are some of the benefits of keeping him in one piece:
http://www.drmomma.org/2009/09/functions-of-foreskin-purposes-of.html
www.who.int/entity/reproductivehealth/topics/rtis/male_circumcision/en/ - 23k
(World Health Organisation says that male circumcisions prevent HIV !)
So banning circumcisions in Germany might increase your number of HIV cases! Make a choice !
European Convention on Human Rights allows freedom of religion.
Welcome Islam in the western society, investigate it !
The World Health Organization is also behind the "breast is best" campaign pressuring new mothers to practice breast feeding, and even trying to restrict access to infant formula to poor mothers.
Breast feeding by HIV positive mothers is a major cause of HIV in newborns!
The WHO is very stubborn, but not always right!
those minorities who live in the country must respect the law.
The Jews who wish to keep their religion got an alternative and they know it
Israel
I have not heard a single adult male, child, or teen for that matter ever not once complain about their state or memory of circumcision. This is a primary right of parents to perform this essential and central religious act for their son and family...this was decreed by G-D and no government or court has any single right to attempt to interfere...it ABSURD & offensive to think that a court would mandate something that is BIBLICAL...you would need to be a TORAH SCHOLAR to suggest this. This is the essential covenant of a Jewish male with G-D. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS if you don't understand or like it. How would you like it mandated that children or adults couldn't eat that damn cracker or drink wine in churches because some of us think that is unhealthy? Aren't innoculations child abuse...I know boys who were traumatized by that not by circumcision...ive been traumatized when I was seven by my dentist who claimed I had 14 cavities...not by my circumcision. It is very traumatic and abusive to be told it may be illegal to practice your beloved religion and complete your relationship with G-D or follow his commandments within your religion. This notion is torturous one and a major violation of a person's freedom to choose their destiny and the destiny of their children.
You say;
"none of them remember or complain about this little at that point (8 days) tiny piece of skin taken off"
You are simply wrong here, plenty of circumcised men do complain about it. The fact is most of the anti circumcision activists in America are Jewish.
Those cities in America that are gearing up for anti circumcision referendums are all heavily Jewish, like Santa Monica California.
Every country has the right to make its own laws.
"none of them remember or complain about this little at that point (8 days) tiny piece of skin taken off""-I do agree with that, that is a fact , I can testify on myself and also my brother can say that we remember nothing from that circumcision.
Yes that is true also in Israel there is a small group of Jews who are against circumcision, they created a group and also appealed to the Suprime court to obbligate the government to interfer in that tadition but their appeal was rejected.
Nobody here force them to circumcise their kids , if you chose not do it you simply do not do it, the government says that at least 2% of the population did not circumsize its kids from the same reasons you posted before, yet 98% do continue with that procedure , in our land we use to say:"live and do not bother the other to live after their traditions" there are Moslems,Druse,Christians,Orthodox Jews ,seculare Jews ,reformist Jews, Bahai religion ,Cherques ,Beduinen ecc, every group live after his tradition the state does not tell you what you should believe or do and respect all traditions of all groups , if you start violating tradition of one group that will cause caus and fight among all the other groups and that is the last thing we need in such delicate situation in our country, I can not think what will happen if we shell obbligate all moslems and orthodox Jews not to make circumcision by law, it means to open a religion conflict inside the country and instability
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The results can be analizzed both for Jews and Moslems and then get known on public, I guess it might be important for any future legislation..
At least I know what my answer will be and also my brothers'view.
Have a good weekend
its your penis not even your ears or nose which will get the skin adjusted when not wore for few years..Also parents have no rights to cut their sons penis off just for the sake that "women like it that way" which will look some times uglier on the penis around..( i experience because i am circumcised for medical reasons).
Also people living must be morever adjusted to the host country rather than brining all the same old religious practices (which doesnot hurt other people)all the way to germany.
Finally when something happens to the child,its said this happened in "Germany"..
Well I do agree with that,and just with that.